Advanced Members Popular Post miaa Posted May 25, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 (edited) Hi all, Over the next 30 days, I am hosting 3 different contests that serve to spread light and positivity to the xat community. Each contest will have a different question and will last 10 days. The rules are plain and simple: please no negative remarks!! Be positive and genuine. The winners will be elected based on how genuine and impactful the message is to the community. Anything that feels forced or scripted will not be effective for this contest. Please submit your response with your xat regname and xat ID. Feel free to reply to comments, adding on to what they say or just offering friendly advice/tips. Invite all of your friends!! QUESTION FOR CONTEST 1: What would you say or do to make a positive impact on yourself or to someone you want to support? Prizes: Contest 1: Purple power Contest 2: Namecolor Contest 3: Namegrad Prize holder: @Sydno Judges: @Addict, @Angelo, @miaa Deadlines: Contest 1: June 4th @ 11:59pm EST Contest 2: June 14th @11:59pm EST Contest 3: June 24th @ 11:59pm EST Thank you @Dann for bringing up the idea and providing the prizes. Thank you @Sydno, @Addict, @Angelo for helping. Have fun, I am looking forward to your responses! If you have any questions, please pm me on here or mail me on xat: nature (221192). 🌻🌻🌻🌻 Edited May 25, 2018 by miaa 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Fair Posted May 25, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 25, 2018 (edited) Booh (44184) well we all have a friend who supports us so much friend who like us and also admires us the first impact would be me to give myself super well to value friendship to visit her even if she decides to date me because of the criterion but in the end the friendship and the It does not matter at a distance. Edited May 26, 2018 by Booh 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Dann Posted May 25, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 25, 2018 (edited) 1 hour ago, Booh said: Booh (44184) @Booh Hey Booh, There is a question attached to this contest that must be answered in order to be considered for the price. Please take a look at the contest, and answer the question to be eligible to win the prize. thanks! EDIT: I'd like to remind everyone the question within this contest: What would you say or do to make a positive impact on yourself or to someone you want to support? Please do not post personal information about yourself or others. The question is what do you do or say to make a positive impact on yourself or to show someone support. example submissions: " When times are rough, I tell myself that life is too short and I have to keep moving and that's how I make an impact on my day and my life." "When a friend is in need, I try to interact with them and spend time so that they do not feel so alone in this world" Again, PLEASE do not post personal information about your life or anyone elses life, this is not the point of the contest. The point is to spread positivity and to allow other people to reflect on what you are saying. Mocking the contest or trying to troll the contest, will CLEARLY show your character and that is something you will have to bear yourself. thank you. Edited May 25, 2018 by Dann 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Volunteers Sydno Posted May 25, 2018 Volunteers Share Posted May 25, 2018 I confirm I am holding the prize. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bot Service Providers Popular Post Nezhit Posted May 25, 2018 Bot Service Providers Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 (edited) Paulo(162497) "Never give up your dreams, its all posible." This is my message for myself and all. When you know the truth you can continue in the good way. Edited May 25, 2018 by Laming 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiki Translators Popular Post Blacky Posted May 25, 2018 Wiki Translators Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 Blacky (691320709) To have a positive impact, the only thing that you have to do is to be yourself. Help the others without receiving anything in exchange, but especially, the positive impact, is to be as you are. In my case, I'm volunteer of Spain Red Cross. I'm sanitary in emergencies. Also I have a job at a hospital, as sanitary, but there they pay me. Be in Red Cross, make me be a happier person, because I try to save a life, without receiving anything in exchange. But, it is not the important thing. In my case, there is not positives impact, is to be more humanitarian as you are. In the world of the emergencies, there aren't negative things, because you know that all you've done is to save a life. 13 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Popular Post Potato Posted May 25, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 Potato (69636615) 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Popular Post J0hn Posted May 25, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 J0NI (2014) Hello.This is my message for all :Tell everyday to those we love that you love them. Do not take any moment. life deserves to live it!!! 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Volunteers Popular Post Lemona Posted May 25, 2018 Volunteers Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 First of all, thank you Mia for this lovely idea and Danns for making it happen. Our community definitely needs more kindness, positivity and love. In a world where poverty, homelessness and hate is so common, it is important for others to be kind and think about how others might be feeling. Sometimes you really don’t know what someone is going through and your actions can really have an impact. This could be something you’ve said, something you’ve posted or even something you’ve physically done. For me, I think it’s important to spread kindness and love to others with what I say. This can be as easy as me saying “I like your outfit today” to someone or “Thank you for always being there” or even just a simple “I love you.” Doing things like joining organizations for good causes, giving random acts of kindness, helping others in times of need, treating others with respect and love or speaking up about matters that are important to me are all things that make a positive impact on myself and others. I genuinely like helping and making other people happy and I think it’s important to often reflect on yourself and ask “Was I treating people nicely? Could I have done something better for someone? Could I have offered support somewhere else?” and then improve on your actions in the future. Now, enjoy this uplifting video. <3 xoxo 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Dallas Posted May 25, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 25, 2018 What would you say or do to make a positive impact on yourself or to someone you want to support? I'd tell myself or someone else who is dealing with something very serious, whether it be bankrupt, divorce, break up, or personal issues, there is no one in this world that you can't talk to, there is no one in this world that can stop you from lifting yourself up, dusting yourself off, and going back out and making yourself a little better than what you were the day before. Don't let these obstacles stop you. We live in a world where there is billions of people. We all feel alone but we're not. Just make that effort to go out and experience life. <3 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members miaa Posted May 25, 2018 Author Advanced Members Share Posted May 25, 2018 Loving these comments so far everyone!! Thank you <3 very uplifting 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Popular Post Stif Posted May 25, 2018 Moderators Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 Life is as it is, you could stop and imagine how it could be or you can stand up and make your dreams come true, no one will do that for you. Do the best you can, be the best you can and never forget those who were always by your side, they won't forget you either. Stif (1997) 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 25, 2018 Share Posted May 25, 2018 zedd 144541588 Have faith in yourself, and pray for forgivness Never let your dream be destroyed no one can stop you from dreaming live everyday like it's your last day try hard to make your dream come true love yourself lol thx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Popular Post TalentW Posted May 25, 2018 Members Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 Care (1533026183) If you ever feel like giving up keep going and I promise you that your aspirations will become reality. "A river cuts through rock, not because of its power, but because of its persistency." 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Popular Post Haey Posted May 25, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2018 Yeah (10000090) do not give up and go on. The stones that today hinder your walk tomorrow will grace your road. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members xSwag69 Posted May 25, 2018 Members Share Posted May 25, 2018 I was always told there are two types of people in this world One that find excuses and one who find a way. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Ravey Posted May 25, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 25, 2018 "Life is all about being true to yourself and what you believe in" Ravey (1488806750) 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Brand Posted May 26, 2018 Members Share Posted May 26, 2018 (edited) Well, I could cloud your heads with falsities by saying something generic like "you can do whatever you want to do, be whatever you want to be, and accomplish whatever you want to accomplish", but I'd be lying. I can, however, relay to you the truth. The truth is that while life will kick you down and constantly beat on you every chance it gets, there is still hope. Hope that you can, once again, deliver a huge blow to life and get right back up on your feet. Hope that you can recover. Hope is something that cannot be taken away, no matter how tough thins may seem. Hope is what we fight with when all else is lost. With this hope, you can live a happy, peaceful life without ever getting knocked down by life's hardships. So take that hope, that kindle still burning within you, and tell yourself, "I will persevere". Just like that, you've overcome the biggest obstacles of all: fear and doubt. Regname: Aatrox / ID: (100047) Edited May 26, 2018 by Brand Forgot to Include Regname/ID 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Popular Post AND3 Posted May 26, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 26, 2018 AND3 (247287525) Certainly, just like you, I also had my share of suffering and difficult times. I realize now that by going through these challenges, I not only surpassed them, I grew stronger, I became better acquainted with myself, I understood the nature of pain, and with this experience I share, I help you and others to overcome 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiki Translators DonQuijote Posted May 26, 2018 Wiki Translators Share Posted May 26, 2018 Always think positive, life can go up, life can go down but never stop trying, never stop believing because secret of our success is that we never give up, light always comes to the end of the tunnel. Watch the video and NEVER GIVE UP ! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Toxic Posted May 26, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 26, 2018 Very nice topic. I'm glad people are showing their positive thoughts and I hope others are taking this in and allowing it to impact them. No licensed therapists allowed :$ 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Distinct Posted May 26, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 26, 2018 (edited) Encrypt (68584578) Everybody goes through obstacles in life. You may feel like you are alone, but you're not. There are others going through those same obstacles as you. Hopefully, you can find those people and befriend them as you have common interests, they'll be great friends with you someday. Do not let anything in life stop motivating you. Ignore your haters. If you are hated for being a better person, then the jokes on them. I may not win anything at all, but I just want to wish good luck to others who have entered. Always keep moving forward in life. Never stop pushing for success. Edited May 26, 2018 by Encrypt 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RuinPrincess Posted May 27, 2018 Members Share Posted May 27, 2018 RuinPrincess (1522742437) What would you say or do to make a positive impact on yourself or to someone you want to support? Life is like a carousel, it never stops spinning. Therefore, we should take advantage of life to the fullest and not waste time. I would be hypocrite, if I told you that. Life is too cruel, no. People are. But never stop looking for the good ones. Even if someone has failed you, move on. If you need to cry, cry, take out your frustration, stop for a moment.. take a deep breath... but don't give up. There's someone out there waiting for you. Waiting for the day to meet you, you can be the impact to someone else's life with a word or with an action.. even with a kind smile. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Popular Post Lalisa Posted May 27, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 27, 2018 (edited) I'm wondering, while I'm reading your answers, how many of you think in that way? Like you guys really see life in pink and light colours? Are you guys really able to wash the pain away that easily? I keep telling to myself that everything happens with a reason, but as I grow older it seems like I can't find that reason. I can't find a reason for everything that actually happened to me in the past few years. Actually, most of us think like this, but the truth is we, ourselves, are at blame. I'm trying to be a positive person, but I fail day by day. There's a little dying voice inside my head that keeps saying "you're not stuck, just start something, step by step, don't rush everything", but I don't listen to it any longer. The only positive thing I can do right now for myself is to finish college, get my diploma and stop playing video games all day like I have nothing to worry about, cause I do. After this, I'll try to save all I can save from my relationship with him, because he has a positive impact on me, he makes my life better and sometimes, we are happy. Even if I'm not that happy for now and I can't lie saying I really have good life, because inside I feel like dying. I still have faith and I'm still hoping things will get better, in time, in the future. As for somebody else, I'm just trying to be there for them and trying my best to give them the best advice, and even sometimes, the ugly truth. I might not be someone that you guys might believe, on xat, but with some people from here that I'm really close and have feelings for me and they are some of my close online friends, they know how weird and mean sometimes I can be, but they also know that caring and sweet part of me, even if I don't show it very often. What can I say to you guys is just believe in yourself and breathe. Do everything you can to fulfill your wishes, and hope for a better life. Don't be stuck in someone's idea about your worth and prove them wrong. Since some of you posted quotes, I'll present you a few: "Don't just give up, Hachiko. Life is about getting knocked down over and over, but still getting up each time. If you keep getting up, you win." "In this sleepless night, as the darkness advances, look up at the sky and somehow remember that somewhere in this wide world, there are always people who love you, and people who need you. Because every person can't go on living alone." "You know Hachi, your life depends only on ourselves. I’m still convinced about this… But I’ve also learned to accept that people… don’t all become as strong, and it made me kinder than before." "When life changes to be harder, change yourself to be stronger." So, this is all. (: I recommend you to read NANA. LUNALA (1490568030) Edited May 28, 2018 by Asphyxia forgot my reg ops 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Geordie Posted May 27, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 27, 2018 Geordie (1000061) Positive impact that helping others can have on your own mental health, ... Helping others in need, especially those who are less fortunate than yourself, can ... experienced themselves – it contributes to a more positive community. .... Evidence shows that being kind to friends, family and strangers really does help. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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