Smiley Makers Popular Post Mike Posted May 19, 2018 Smiley Makers Popular Post Share Posted May 19, 2018 I am opening this thread here because I feel I need to address the community and apologize to various users for my poor malicious and cruel behavior the past year. I want to say firstly and foremost that I am sorry to all the people I insulted in the "xat help disstrack" This would be Lemona, Muffins, Kyle, and Brandon. Though I may not like or be very fond of Muffins, Kyle, and Brandon, it was not respectful nor gave me the right to blatantly insult and talk trash about these users. It showed how immature and foolish I could be. I am ashamed of what I have done with this and I apologize to all of you for it. In general, it was just very wrong to do and I also apologize for not making this thread sooner. I am sorry to you Lemona for all the pain and hurt my actions have caused you. The disstrack was unacceptable and just shameful from me after all your loyalty and care you shown me over the past 3 years of our friendship. I do not deserve a wonderful friend like you. Thank you for remaining loyal to me and giving me another chance to be in your life. Secondly, I want to apologize to Brandy, Bryan, and Mony. I attacked you and treated you with disrespect for very unjustified and unfair reasons. I take the blame for myself and myself alone. I will not use any excuse to defend my actions. I'm sorry for harassing and attacking Mony, and I am sorry to you Bryan for harassing and attacking her as well as you when you tried to defend her. I don't blame you for never liking or associating with me again. I want to apologize to Maverick for always choosing others above him when he deserves my respect and loyalty for being a good true friend even in hard times. I have been a very crappy friend to you and I really don't deserve your friendship after always siding with other people. I just want you to know I appreciate all you have done for me and having my back in tough situations. I want to also apologize to Sydney for treating her like complete garbage after things didn't go my way 2 years ago. I was very rude and malicious and I attempted to turn your friends against you. I did this because I was hurt and that is absolutely no justification for my actions. I am also sorry to you Courage for trying to turn you against your closest friend. I am sorry to you Loa for treating you disrespectfully when all you tried to do was be there as a support for me. I did not give you the respect you deserve and basically just was very harsh and uncaring to you after everything. I apologize for that. I want to also apologize to you Toxic for reporting your chat rather than banning the user posting personal information which led to you being delisted. I was malicious in trying to "pay you back" for thinking you were talking behind my back in order to screw me over. So I admit to being a jerk with reporting and being bias. I want to apologize to Angel. I spent a year and a half with you and I was mostly happy during that time until the end. I know things didn't work out between us but I treated you terribly and disrespectfully. I should of never brought our drama / personal issues to xat or other people. I am sorry for all the nonsense I have caused you to go through. I feel like all of this could of been avoided. Lastly, I want to apologize to the community for all my wrong doings over this past year and a half. Most of you know very well what I have done and I have brought shame on myself and this community as a whole. I truly am embarrassed and ashamed of my stupid actions. I don't expect any of you to forgive me or accept my apologies. But I want to show you all that I know what I have done is wrong and I want to move past all this hate and darkness and move to a better future for xat and users as a whole. I thank all of my friends for being there and supporting me through all these hard times in my life. I wouldn't have managed this far without your support. So thank you for standing by me when I didn't deserve your friendships. For all the other users I have wronged or abused I am sorry to you as well. This was just to name a few of the people that I specifically remember hurting and my apology to them. If you feel wronged by me you can also message me on xat and we can talk about it. Thank you for reading this. I want to move past this and make a better future for everyone. The community, xat, and my friends as a whole. 4 3 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Karl Posted May 19, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 19, 2018 I feel like keeping this private would of been the ideal thing to do instead of splurting it on a public messaging board. It's the internet who cares what you did to them, they'll eventually get over it and if they don't who cares. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angel Posted May 19, 2018 Members Share Posted May 19, 2018 In other words; ”Sorry, not sorry. Reputation matters in 2018.” 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members miaa Posted May 19, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 19, 2018 Learn from your mistakes and keep evolving into a better person. People can either forgive or not forgive you. I believe this gave yourself and maybe the people affected some closure. Letting out the negative to make room for the positive : ) . 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Coraige Posted May 19, 2018 Members Share Posted May 19, 2018 15 minutes ago, Angel said: In other words; ”Sorry, not sorry. Reputation matters in 2018.” Since my wholesome comment got removed, I think for once I'll agree with you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Ravey Posted May 19, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 19, 2018 I'm not on anyone's side or anything. But i'm glad you apologized to people, learn from your mistakes and make yourself a better person. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Lalisa Posted May 20, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 20, 2018 for the 2 people that actually thought what he says, he's just bluffing. But yeah yeah, nice words !!! we appreciate them. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Popular Post Flake Posted May 20, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 20, 2018 my nans ugly and fat i really love xat in my past life i was a cat and my name was pat mike is sorry he was a fool please do not hate him he is cool i love u mike u rule! 4 6 8 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Distinct Posted May 20, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 20, 2018 We all make mistakes. You are just like everyone else. No need to be sorry. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Dallas Posted May 20, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 20, 2018 This takes a lot of guts to be able to apologize to these users directly in public instead of it being in private where it should have been. That being said, it's time for the people to try and be the bigger person and be able to forgive, it doesn't mean to forget but just forgive so you're not holding a grudge on your conscience. I hope everyone can try to squash the beef and have a happier and more enjoyable community. The community is dying and we don't need to make enemies. Learn to get along or at least try. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angel Posted May 20, 2018 Members Share Posted May 20, 2018 1 hour ago, Dallas said: This takes a lot of guts to be able to apologize to these users directly in public instead of it being in private where it should have been. That being said, it's time for the people to try and be the bigger person and be able to forgive, it doesn't mean to forget but just forgive so you're not holding a grudge on your conscience. I hope everyone can try to squash the beef and have a happier and more enjoyable community. The community is dying and we don't need to make enemies. Learn to get along or at least try. Why would we forgive him when he’s insincere? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Bau Posted May 20, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 20, 2018 Hello Mike´s. I forgive you, but you forgive me for always saying mike-y mouse. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Popular Post Bryan Posted May 20, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 20, 2018 (edited) It takes a lot of guts and courage to publicly apologize, and I respect that. It’s time to move forward, and all this petty digs at one another need to stop. I just really hope you’re sincere about this one. I don’t think it’s mature for people to give you crap about this, but one day they will remember this negativity when it’s being thrown at them as well. With that being said, I’m not one to hold grudges against anyone, nobody is perfect. And I accept your apology. Muchos gracias pen. Edited May 20, 2018 by Addict 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Popular Post Life Posted May 21, 2018 Advanced Members Popular Post Share Posted May 21, 2018 (edited) Oh i'm sorry but what a joke. Everyone do me a favor, grab a plate take it out side and then drop it. It breaks yes? Now say sorry to it. Did it fix the plate? No. Simple stuff, you think this justifies what you have done? Do you think sorry will fix what has been done and take away the pain you have caused? No. Think of your actions before you do something. We are all one race and you seem to think you are above the rest. Karma will deal to you in time. Edited May 21, 2018 by Life 5 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Kriz Posted May 21, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 21, 2018 50 minutes ago, Life said: Oh i'm sorry but what a joke. Everyone do me a favor, grab a plate take it out side and then drop it. It breaks yes? Now say sorry to it. Did it fix the plate? No. Simple stuff, you think this justifies what you have done? Do you think sorry will fix what has been done and take away the pain you have caused? No. Think of your actions before you do something. We are all one race and you seem to think you are above the rest. Karma will deal to you in time. ROFL Life we all are humans we all done mistakes in past i think you are here just to cause drama and u should drop it right there . 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Advanced Members Cyan Posted May 21, 2018 Advanced Members Share Posted May 21, 2018 I am going to use my own discretion and close this. Ideally we want constructive and appropriate criticism on this forum base, something most of the replies have not been. And I am sure the OP wanted that rather than some of the harassment he has received both on the forum base and off. I want this to be fair for everyone regardless of the circumstances. Sadly some people may not be able to see that. With that said though, its disappointing the majority of replies here have been removed by our moderation team (vols included) even though they all have been correctly removed. No one has done anything wrong here - and worked within the tools/rules they have been instructed to do so. The rules are not here to stifle conversations but to try and improve them, something that's not really worked in this case so we will have an internal discussion about moderation practices in the future, nothing may change though as we discuss it. Threads like this are difficult to get the right balance, and with that said I think the moderation team have done overall a good job. Any further questions, feel free to reach out to me. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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