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Brandon last won the day on September 5

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  1. Abandon the Contributors.

    I agree. I vote to abolish the Contributors group.
  2. COMING UP - 11TH XAT ANIVERSARY .

    The hat project was abandoned because the designer quit. Nobody else took on the project, so don't expect new hats.
  3. What's your favorite type of pizza?

    Hawaiian pizza. @Kayzar
  4. Your gay history

    I think about that all the time, and I have no clue how it's going to happen. I'm so excited though! I'll post a follow-up story for sure.
  5. Your gay history

    I had gay feelings early on (probably when I was 12 or 13), but up until about a year ago, I legitimately believed I was straight. There was some major cognitive dissonance, so I believed I was straight in order to be at peace. I obviously didn't know this was happening. It wasn't until I went to my university that I started confronting my thoughts. It probably took eight years to accept myself! The first person I came out to was Rida on October 12, 2016, one day after National Coming Out Day. I first came out as bisexual, but it wasn't because I denied who I was. I wasn't using it as a transitioning stage. I'll spare the details, but you could say I'm a 5 on the Kinsey scale, and I thought this required me to label myself as bisexual. It turns out that not every gay person is a 6 on that scale, and it didn't feel right calling myself bisexual, so I call myself gay now. From there, I told my brother, family, and friends. If someone asks, I'll tell them I'm gay. If they don't ask, I won't say anything. It's hardest to tell the people closest to you, so my parents were the last to find out. What's interesting though is that there is an extremely high amount of pressure in coming out. I knew my parents would accept me and be happy with me. I also live in one of the most liberal states in the US, which puts me in one of the most liberal and accepting areas in the entire world. Still, it's extremely hard to come out to people. This has made me realize how grateful I am to live where I do. I just happened to start talking to Kayzar on Discord just a few days before I came out to Rida. I loved the sound of his voice, and I loved how he was constantly laughing, even when everyone was telling him to shut up. We're still dating, and now I'm going to see him next week for the first time! So much has happened in the past year, and coming out was really life-changing.
  6. Last person to post the highest number wins!

    Hopefully not just for the sake of it! We don't want to be abusing reputation.
  7. HTTPS rollout

    It looks like there's still no option to use https on pages:
  8. !Feliz cumpleaños, mi amor! ❤️

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    2. Bau
    3. Blacky

      Blacky

      ¡Felicidades Kay (hug)!. Disfruta muchísimo de éste día y procura empeñarte de que al ser tu día, disfrutes con tu familia y amig@s de tu cumpleaños.

    4. Bau
  9. HTTPS rollout

    Uh, progress has been slow on that. I'll expedite, but use another solution for now!
  10. HTTPS rollout

    I'm not sure if it matters much, but chat assets aren't prepared to handle HTTPS:
  11. Nice paying attention.
  12. Bad luck to all other entrants.
  13. Thank you again to everyone who entered! This was pretty tough, but I have finally decided the winners. Unfortunately, some very good entries had to be put on the chopping block because of extremely low image resolution quality. On a high resolution screen, some of them looked terrible. Other good entries were disqualified because of some small design problems that, had the designer paid more attention to detail, wouldn't have been a problem. 1st place winner: Guppy. Click here to go to the 1st place winner (the first entry). Prize: 30000 xats. 2nd place winner: Navith. Click here to go to the 2nd place winner (the second version). Prize: 12000 xats. 3rd place winner: Steven. Click here to go to the 3rd place winner. Prize: 8000 xats. Due to a judging error, the original 2nd place winner, T0x1c, was replaced with Navith. Navith has since decided to donate 6000 xats of his prize to T0x1c, but T0x1c's prize will reside with me. (And no, I'm not the Steve Harvey of xat.)
  14. The following entry has been accepted for consideration: Chat background: Outer background: Button color: #0b98cc. Participant: Flake 160987981.
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